Masturbation

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm

Female masturbation seems to intrigue a lot of people, maybe because they can't figure out how common it is, or how girls do it at all. I don't really know what proportion of girls masturbate, or how often, but I was surprised by the handouts in lecture on women masturbating its as bad as men. I also found it funny seeing how students in the lecture was embarrassed to admit if they have ever masturbated. And the people who wasn't afraid to admit the ages they started masturbating was very young and did it often as well. In the Victorians times masturbation was seen as a sin and I can't believe they thought it could actually kill you, still to today according to the bible masturbation is a sin.

Infedility

Two-timing hurts. Even if it's just a one-off exciting one night stand, when people with partners go elsewhere for some physical kicks, everyone involved can suffer. But slapped faces, slanging matches and emotional pain aren't the only fallout when a person plays away. In fact, infidelity raises a number of questions...

• Why did that person stray from their partner in the first place?


• Why can't people be satisfied with one partner?


• How should each of the three people involved approach the problem, once every thing's out in the open?
  

I think to commit adultery is an act of selfishness, scheming and hypocrisy. Just knowing others vulnerabilities and using them to ones owns advantage. There are many reasons why people cheat could be because they don't feel loved by their partner, having one partner is a bore, being charmed by another person or married with kids not happy but can't leave.

The way I've dealt with relationships in the past, where I've had an situations where I've felt attraction for someone else or realised my partner was more of a friend than a lover. I finished the relationship, I could have cheated but just don't have the heart to. I'm not judging people who have cheated we all have made mistakes but a person who repeatedly cheats has no remorse.

http://www.aamft.org/families/Consumer_Updates/Infidelity.asp

Is it prostitution to take money from someone who is expecting sex, but then not supply it?

A person who doesn't supply sex and takes money is not a prostitute, this is called an escort. An escort is someone paid to go on a date as a companion. A prostitute is someone who sells their body, exchanges sex for money.

Is it sociably respectable?

• Could be because the person is not exactly selling their body.
  
• Or could be less socially respectable because their taking money without supplying the sex and portraying themselves as a prostitute.
  

Is this Being Bad?

My opinion... for someone to pay an prostitute money without receiving sex is allowing that person to take them for a fool. It's not theft if the person hasn't said they would be supplying sex at the end of the night exchange for the money.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution

The Trip

I was a young carefree teenager when I thought that I could do whatever I wanted and not suffer the consequences. As an adult only now I can look back and see how wrong I was.......here i had a close shave.

I was dating a guy (young love) and I can honestly say I was easily mislead. He suggested a trip to London which would mean 'wagging' school. I coerced my friend into coming along also so that I would have a partner in crime. We lied to our parents as to why we would be coming home late and packed a bag with a change of clothes.

Full of excitement and enthusiasm we waitined patiently for our 'trip' to start.

We waited....

........and waited

....still waited.

I took initative and sneaked back home to call the boyfriend, spoke to him , to be left truly disappointed. We was not going to London after all....he said that he couldn't make it.

Now Im sure that was a blessing because i cannot fathom the trouble I would have got into if we had ended up in London on that day.

Being Bad

Well, everyone will have their own perceptions on what is right and wrong. However, I believe a good generalization that represents what most people consider bad is simply this: if it hurts yourself, other people or the environment. Being bad is probably defined as following temptations you know are a bad idea and that will cause bad things to happen.
Being bad is also a perception and how society around us explains what is bad and what is good, so something bad to one person can be entirely good to another so it differs from person to person and from culture to culture....

http://www.stickyminds.com/sitewide.asp?Function=edetail&ObjectType=COL&ObjectId=7556

Poor me, Pour me another!!

Have you ever felt so low that all you think of is getting drunk to dull the pain. Do you ever feel so bored that you drink just because it is something to do. Even worst do you drink so that you feel confident and people will like you.

Is excessive drinking (binge drinking) a fashionable way of being called an alcoholic?

Alcoholism is the consumption of or preoccupation with alcoholic beverages to the extent that this behavior interferes with the alcoholic's normal personal, family, social, or work life. Alcohol consumption caused by alcoholism can result in psychological and physiological conditions, and ultimately in death. Alcoholism is one of the world's most costly drug use problems; with the exception of nicotine addiction, alcoholism is more costly to most countries than all other drug use problems combined.

In common usage, binge drinking is now usually used to refer to heavy drinking over an evening or similar time span - sometimes also referred to as heavy episodic drinking. Binge drinking is often associated with drinking with the intention of becoming intoxicated and, sometimes, with drinking in large groups. It is sometimes associated with physical or social harm.


http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/Mosby_factsheets/alcohol_abuse.html

I'll do anything for bar of chocolate......

My sister and I was reminiscing the other day and she told me a story...

We had been sent to the shop by our mother and I had asked my sister for some sweets but she told me no. Now I must of not been satisfied by that answer because when my sister had looked back at me I was acting shifty and guilty.
I had decided that I wanted the chocolate no matter what.
I had become a petty criminal.
My sister asked me what was I hiding behind my back and in my shock I dropped the chocolate on the floor, but since I was only five years old the shopkeeper only laughed at me and sent me on my way.

But that wasn't the end of my shoplifting day.........stay tuned.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/school_jobs/good_friends/shoplifting.html

My first cigarette.

My first ever cigarette was when I was fifteen years old. I was in school and I can admit that It was only down to peer pressure why I took a puff. It was the most disgusting thing I can say I've put in my mouth. But no I wanted to be like the cool kids so I continued puffing along filling my lungs with poison.

When I would get home I dont think my mother could smell it on me, being a smoker herself, so there was nobody to tell me that I was committing a crime on my health.

When I did finally realised that the horrible smell on my fingers was there to stay and that running for the bus was leaving me breathless, I knew It wasnt worth the time.

So I picked up the courage to say no the next time I was offered a "fag", only to be told i was a "wimp".....Well who needs enemies with friends like them.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/drug_alcohol/tobacco/smoking.html